by Danny Eley | Jul 14, 2023 | Brotherhood, Faith, Fatherhood, Front Page, Leadership, Manhood, Respect
“Sound of Freedom” is more than a film. It’s a slap across the face. It’s not a popcorn movie for your Friday night, it’s a hard-hitting truth that grabs you by the collar and screams to be heard.
I tell you what, there’s a reason why some want to keep this movie under wraps. This film, it’s causing an uproar. A real shake-up in the lofty places of Hollywood. They’re throwing around labels – conspiracy theory, white supremacist propaganda, whatnot. They want to put this movie in a box, tape it up, and shove it under a stack of other forgotten boxes. You know why? Because “Sound of Freedom” unearths the gruesome underbelly of child trafficking that they don’t want you to see. Because it breaks the status quo they’ve worked hard to maintain.
But this ain’t about conspiracy theories or political propaganda. No sir. It’s about the horrendous reality of children, kids like yours and mine, being sold into slavery like meat at a market. It’s about men like Tim Ballard and operation underground railroad, who are risking it all to wrench these innocent souls from the jaws of this monstrous trade.
It digs deep into child trafficking – a hideous truth we often conveniently shut our eyes to. But my friends, we can’t play blind anymore. The film mirrors the true journey of Tim, a man who willingly stepped away from his safe job to pluck a little girl from this abyss. The lengths he goes to, the risks he takes, they will shake you to your core.
The performances? My Goodness, they’re riveting. Especially the kids. It’s as if they weren’t acting at all. It was so real, so raw, it felt like a punch straight to the gut, a punch that still aches.
I won’t lie, this film broke me. I cried in the theater, on my way home, even woke up in the dead of night with this film burning in my thoughts. There was this scene where a son reunites with his father, and the way that boy hugged his dad, man, it’s the same way my own boy hugs me. It hit too close to home, it hurt.
“Sound of Freedom” is not merely a movie. It’s a battle cry against the horrifying nightmare of child trafficking. It’s a plea for humanity, for change. It’s a voice for those silenced by fear and exploitation. This isn’t a movie for the faint-hearted. It’s raw, real, and disturbing.
“Sound of Freedom” is a story that needs to be told, needs to be heard, needs to be felt. It needs you, it needs us, to pay attention.
Watch it. Let it rock you, like it rocked me. Let it make you angry, let it make you sad, let it stir something within you. And then, let’s stir the world. Don’t let anyone dissuade you with labels and slander. Let your own eyes, your own heart, be the judge. And then, let’s take a stand.
by Danny Eley | Jul 12, 2023 | Front Page, Leadership
Leadership isn’t just about calling the shots or being at the front of the line. It’s about lighting a fire within others, stoking that flame, and guiding it towards greatness. That’s where the real challenge lies. If you’re aspiring to lead, to truly make an impact, then this blog is your launching pad.
We’re not talking about temporary bursts of motivation here. No, we’re talking about lasting inspiration. The kind of inspiration that fuels perseverance, grit, and a steadfast march towards goals. If you’re ready to inspire, to motivate, to lead in the truest sense, then let’s dive in.
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Unlocking Potential: How to Ignite the Spark in Others
Igniting the spark in others isn’t merely about grand speeches or big gestures. It’s about fostering a culture of inspiration and motivation through your actions. It’s a multifaceted process that involves several key strategies.
Be an example: Your actions speak louder than any motivational speech. If you want others to be dedicated, passionate, and committed, you need to embody those qualities yourself. Embrace your role and display your commitment to the team and to the goal. Show up consistently and persistently. This consistency and dedication will resonate with your team, inspiring them to emulate your commitment.
Empower: One of the most potent sources of motivation is empowerment. When people feel valued and trusted, their motivation and productivity skyrocket. Give your team the room they need to grow, make decisions, and even make mistakes. Encourage autonomy and give them the opportunity to take on challenges and learn from their experiences. Your trust and faith in their abilities can ignite a powerful drive within them.
Connect: A strong connection can make a world of difference in leadership. Invest your time and effort in forging genuine relationships with your team members. Understand their motivations, dreams, and fears. Learn what makes them tick, what fuels their passion, and what hinders their progress. When they feel seen and understood, your words and guidance carry more weight and can significantly influence their motivation levels.
Seize the Reins: Building a Legacy of Motivation and Inspiration
Being a leader goes beyond the here and now. True leadership is about leaving a legacy, a ripple effect of inspiration and motivation that continues long after your immediate influence.
Persevere: Leadership and inspiration are not one-off events. They’re a continuous journey marked with obstacles, setbacks, and failures. But as a leader, your role is to stand firm, to stay the course no matter what. Your resilience in the face of adversity can inspire your team to develop the same level of resilience. Remember, in the darkest times, your team will look to you as their beacon of hope.
Evolve: Leadership isn’t a destination; it’s a dynamic, evolving journey. As a leader, you must continually seek growth and improvement. Stay open to feedback, be willing to change, and remain a lifelong learner. The more you grow and learn, the more wisdom and guidance you can offer to your team. This continuous evolution not only makes you a better leader, but it also inspires your team members to adopt the same growth mindset.
Answer the Call: Lead, Inspire, and Make an Impact
If you’re still here, if you’re still reading, then you’re ready. You’re ready to lead, inspire, and truly make a difference. This is your call to arms.
Take these lessons, these insights, and integrate them into your life. As you grow, as you inspire, remember: Leadership isn’t about superiority or authority. It’s about growth, connection, and impact.
You have the potential within you to ignite a spark in others, to lead them towards greatness. It’s time to rise, to embrace this challenge, and to leave a lasting legacy.
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by Danny Eley | Jul 4, 2023 | Brotherhood, Faith, Fatherhood, Fitness, Front Page, Growth, Integrity, Leadership, Manhood, Respect, Success
The Dawn of Freedom
Freedom – a powerful word that echoes through the annals of American history, underpinning the nation’s ethos and aspirations. The seed sown by the Founding Fathers blossomed over time, nurtured by the relentless struggle, sacrifice, and steely resolve of the people. From the bold declaration of independence to the abolition of slavery and beyond, freedom has been America’s guiding star, lighting its path towards progress.
Yet, the landscape of liberty is ever-changing, its horizons expanding with each new dawn. It remains our responsibility, as stewards of this great nation, to carry forward the torch of freedom, illuminating our path towards a more equitable and just future.
The Stations of Liberty: Charting America’s Freedom Path
Independence Declared: A Nation Born Free
The first station in our journey lies in the distant past, with the courageous declaration that marked the birth of a free nation. It was a bold affirmation of inherent human rights, and a testament to the power of collective will and action.
Emancipation Proclaimed: A People Unchained
The next significant milestone came with the courageous decision to end the inhumane practice of slavery. This proclamation signaled a profound shift, embodying the nation’s commitment to expanding freedom’s reach and ensuring its blessings for all its inhabitants.
Into the Modern Era: Freedom Redefined
As we move towards the present day, we observe how the concept of freedom has evolved to encompass an array of rights and privileges. It now signifies the liberty to express oneself, the right to equal opportunities, and the pursuit of personal and collective dreams.
The Beacon of Freedom: Envisioning Tomorrow’s America
And now, fellow Americans, it’s your turn to steer the ship of freedom. Your responsibility is to ensure that the beacon of liberty shines brighter, illuminating not only the American shores but also serving as a guide for nations across the world.
Continue to challenge injustices, advocate for equality, and foster inclusivity. Celebrate diversity, respect differing viewpoints, and protect the freedom to dream and aspire. Remember, each of you is a guardian of American freedom – a custodian of the legacy that began with our Founding Fathers and continued through generations.
May the spirit of freedom inspire your journey, just as it has inspired the journey of this great nation, from its dawn to the present day.
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by Danny Eley | Jun 26, 2023 | Front Page, Leadership
What separates a true leader from the crowd? Is it charisma, intellect, vision, or authority? While these qualities are important, there’s a trait that often goes unnoticed, yet it is the cornerstone of true leadership. It is the courage to own one’s actions and decisions – to embrace responsibility in leadership.
The world we live in is fast-paced and ever-evolving, making leadership an uphill climb filled with unknown obstacles. Navigating this journey requires more than just a position or a title—it calls for unwavering commitment and responsibility. Leaders are not merely individuals who dictate orders from an ivory tower. Instead, they are the brave souls who are willing to tread through uncharted paths, make tough decisions, and shoulder the consequences of their actions.
Leadership isn’t about being infallible. On the contrary, it’s about acknowledging that we are human, prone to making mistakes. But what sets leaders apart is their willingness to take responsibility for their actions, to learn and grow from their mistakes rather than shirk away. The strength of a leader isn’t measured by their ability to never falter, but by their courage to rise each time they fall.
In the face of adversity, leaders stand tall, embracing the lessons gleaned from their experiences. They take responsibility for their decisions, realizing that each choice has an impact, not just on them, but on the people they lead. By owning their decisions, leaders inspire trust and confidence, fostering an environment of integrity, respect, and unity.
In our society, we face a myriad of challenges, from social issues to professional hurdles, and in the midst of these trials, we need leaders who aren’t afraid to take responsibility for their actions. We need leaders who, instead of pointing fingers, are willing to lend a hand. We need leaders who stand for more than just power and influence—they stand for responsibility.
The journey to becoming such a leader isn’t an easy one—it’s filled with trials, tribulations, and countless lessons. But it’s a journey worth taking. If you’re ready to embark on this journey, to make a difference in your life and the lives of those around you, this post is your roadmap. It provides you with the practical steps to understand, master, and embody responsibility in leadership.
Practical Steps:
- Reflect on Your Choices: Every decision you make is a testament to your leadership. It is, therefore, crucial to reflect on your choices. Whether they lead to success or failure, each decision offers a valuable lesson. Take time to understand the consequences of your actions, to celebrate your victories, and more importantly, to accept and learn from your mistakes. A misstep isn’t a failure—it’s an opportunity for growth. By reflecting on your choices, you open the door to self-improvement and increased self-awareness, both of which are vital for responsible leadership.
- Honor Your Commitments: As a leader, your words carry weight. When you commit to something, follow through, regardless of changing circumstances. This can be challenging, especially when obstacles arise or when the initial enthusiasm wanes. Yet, it is in these challenging moments that your leadership is truly tested. When you honor your commitments, you demonstrate your reliability, showing those you lead that you can be trusted. Remember, trust is the foundation of strong relationships and successful teams.
- Apologize and Amend: Everyone makes mistakes, but what separates leaders is their ability to apologize and amend. When you’ve made a wrong decision, own up to it. Recognize the impact of your actions on others and make a sincere apology. But don’t stop there—take steps to rectify the situation. Whether it involves a change of strategy, revisiting a decision, or simply making amends, it’s crucial to take action. Remember, apologies are not a sign of weakness—they are a mark of humility and show your commitment to doing what is right.
- Listen and Learn: Responsibility in leadership is not just about making decisions and taking actions. It’s also about listening—to your team, your peers, your mentors, and even your critics. Effective leaders don’t surround themselves with ‘yes men.’ Instead, they welcome diverse opinions and constructive criticism. This openness to feedback allows leaders to learn, adapt, and improve. So, foster an environment where people feel comfortable sharing their thoughts. Use their insights to inform your decisions and actions. In doing so, you’ll not only enhance your leadership skills but also build trust within your team.
Becoming a leader who embraces responsibility is not an overnight transformation—it’s a journey. It’s a journey of self-discovery, growth, and unwavering commitment. And like any journey, it’s filled with challenges and obstacles. But remember, it’s not these challenges that define you, but how you respond to them.
Your challenge is to make a conscious decision to embark on this journey, to strive for progress rather than perfection. Begin by reflecting on a recent decision or action. Was it successful? Could it have been better? What lessons have you learned? This self-reflection is a stepping stone on your path to becoming a responsible leader.
From this day forward, make a commitment to take responsibility for your actions and decisions, to honor your promises, to apologize when you’re wrong, and to listen and learn. This won’t always be easy—it takes courage to own your actions, to admit your mistakes, and to embrace change. But the rewards of such leadership far outweigh the challenges.
As you traverse this path, remember that you’re not alone. You have a team, a community, a world that believes in your potential to lead. As you rise to this challenge, you’ll inspire others to do the same. You’ll create a ripple effect that extends far beyond your immediate circle, touching the lives of countless individuals.
Leadership is not just about standing at the helm—it’s about leading the way through responsibility. So, step up, take command of your decisions and actions, and lead with honor. Embrace the weight of responsibility, for it’s not a burden—it’s a beacon of true leadership. Remember, it’s not about never falling, but about always getting up, about always moving forward.
So, are you ready to rise to this challenge, to become the leader you were meant to be? The journey starts now—with you, with this moment, with your decision to take responsibility.
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by Danny Eley | Jun 18, 2023 | Brotherhood, Faith, Fatherhood, Front Page, Integrity, Leadership, Manhood
Our society today faces a critical challenge: an alarming number of children are growing up without the steady presence of a father figure. According to a report by the U.S. Census Bureau, as of 2020, more than 19.7 million children, more than 1 in 4, live without a father in their home.
Further studies reveal that the ramifications of this are far-reaching and deeply concerning. Children living in fatherless homes are almost four times more likely to be poor. Furthermore, children who experience father absence have a higher probability of having behavioral problems, as they are two times more likely to suffer from infant mortality, more prone to crime, and two times more likely to drop out of high school.
The correlation between fatherless homes and incarceration rates is also stark. As per a report from the Department of Justice, children from fatherless homes account for 63% of youth suicides, 85% of all children with behavior disorders, and 70% of juveniles in state-operated institutions.
As we approach Father’s Day, these unsettling statistics underscore a stark reality that many children confront daily. This crisis of fatherhood is not just a personal tragedy; it’s a societal one. However, amidst this disquieting backdrop, my heart is filled with hope, gratitude, and inspiration – feelings I owe to the influential men who have guided my journey into fatherhood.
My son Daniel, at just 17 months old, has swiftly become the heartbeat of my life. His arrival marked the beginning of a journey that I’ve been longing for, and now with the impending arrival of my second son, the joy of fatherhood has multiplied. I became a father later in life, just 10 days shy of my 40th birthday, but this role that I’ve stepped into has been a dream for as long as I can remember.
You see, this aspiration traces back to my own childhood. My brothers and I used to play pretend, role-playing as fathers to our teddy bears. Sure, they’d probably give me an earful for revealing our childhood secrets – that these tough guys once nurtured stuffed toys with a father’s care. But those were the seeds of the dream that blossomed into reality, the early inklings of the fathers we would become.
Today, I want to honor three men who have profoundly influenced my journey: my Dad, my Grandpa Dean, and my father-in-law, Ibim. Each of them have left indelible imprints on my heart and my life.
My Dad, despite having grown up fatherless, emerged as an exceptional father figure for me, my brothers, and countless foster children. Over a span of a decade, he and my mom ensured that every child they fostered found a loving, forever home. My Dad’s dream was to be a father to 100 children. By the measure of impact, I firmly believe he has surpassed that dream many times over.
In his quest to be an exceptional father, my Dad ventured into unknown territories. Without a father of his own, he often confessed his uncertainties and fears about fatherhood. Yet, he had a fiery determination to break the mold and a strong desire to be the best dad he could be. He was never shy about seeking help and counsel from other men who could guide him along this path.
Among his mentors were several men from the church, such as Pastor Larry, Pastor Danny, Mike Corlis, Nolan Peebles, and many others. Each played a significant role in shaping my father’s parenting journey. But it was my maternal grandfather, Dean Personett, whose influence was particularly profound.
Grandpa Dean was more than just a grandfather to me; he was the guiding force for my dad. He was always there, ready to lend an ear, to offer sage advice, or to just share a word of encouragement. He provided the experienced wisdom and moral support that my dad desperately needed in his quest to be a better father.
From teaching him the practicalities of parenthood to imparting life wisdom, Grandpa Dean’s influence on my dad was immense. His patient guidance and unwavering support were instrumental in helping my dad navigate the complex world of fatherhood.
On this Father’s Day, I pay tribute to my grandpa, an unsung hero whose influence has shaped the man I am today. Without his guidance, my father, and in turn I, may not have had such a strong blueprint for fatherhood. So, here’s to the lessons learned, the wisdom shared, and the legacy that continues to live on.
Losing a parent at a young age is a devastating experience, one that my wife Nimi had to endure far too early. However, in the midst of this heartbreaking loss, a beacon of support emerged – her Uncle Ibim. Stepping in to fill the void left by her father, Ibim not only offered solace but became a pillar of strength in her life. He went above and beyond his duties as an uncle, eventually marrying Nimi’s mom and wholeheartedly embracing the responsibilities that came with it.
Ibim is a man of remarkable strength and resilience, always there for Nimi and our family, often placed in difficult positions but consistently rising to the occasion. His dedication to his role is unwavering, even in the face of challenges. This stoic commitment is etched in my memory, symbolized by his powerful proclamation at our wedding. When the pastor asked who gives away the bride, Ibim’s booming voice echoed through the church, his single-word response, “Me!”, a testament to his unwavering dedication.
Today, Ibim continues to play an invaluable role in our lives. His commitment extends to being a fantastic grandpa to our son Daniel. He’s not just a father figure, but an inspiration, a role model of steadfast devotion and unyielding commitment. On this Father’s Day, I honor Ibim for his impact on our family and his enduring legacy of steadfast love and care.
Fatherhood is a road I travel, but I’m not walking it alone. Right there beside me, every step of the way, is a solid band of brothers. They’re more than just friends and family – they’re my team. My brothers – Benjamin, Stephen, KB, Sam, Tyrell – are the core of this unit. While my brother Jachin is not a father he is a legendary uncle and has a great impact on me as a father.
We’re also strengthened by friends and mentors from church, men who’ve been through the same battles – Manny, Drew, Bryn, Ray, Johnny, Art, Richard, Kennan, Tito, Chris, Jonathon, Josh, my cousin Melvin and my Canadian bro Wayne. They’re seasoned veterans, and their experiences add to our combined strength.
Joining us on the frontlines are colleagues from work who have become more than just coworkers – they’ve become friends who I trust and respect deeply. Randall, Paul, and Jeremy aren’t just workmates; they’re dependable allies in this fatherhood journey.
Standing shoulder to shoulder with us are seasoned veterans of fatherhood – Pastor Aaron, Pastor Adam, John, Pastor Carl, Jim, Mike, Ed, Luis, and Morri. These men have long since graduated to the role of grandfathers. They’ve walked the path I’m on and have gained invaluable wisdom along the way. Each one is a cornerstone in the brotherhood of fatherhood I’m proud to be part of.
Their journeys, filled with their own trials and triumphs, serve as beacons for me as I navigate my own path. Each one is a shining example of the kind of father I aspire to be. Their collective experience and the wisdom they generously share are invaluable resources, helping shape the father I am and the one I’m still striving to become.
This fatherhood journey is not a solo mission. It’s a team sport. We share the rough tackles and the touchdowns, the hard days and the victories. These men are my squad, standing firm as I take on the highs and lows of being a dad. Because no man goes it alone, and in this brotherhood, I’ve found my fort.
Despite the scarcity of quality fathers in the world today, I am blessed to be surrounded by an extraordinary circle of them. They stand as my reminders, my inspiration, and my motivation. As we celebrate Father’s Day, let’s remember and honor all the fathers and father figures who continue to make a difference in their children’s lives, against all odds. Here’s to being the best fathers we can be. Happy Father’s Day.
In a world where strong father figures often seem scarce, I am grateful to stand amidst a band of them. They are not just figures in my life, but they are the lighthouses guiding my journey, the iron that sharpens my own resolve, the fuel that drives my determination to be the best father I can be.
As we observe Father’s Day, let’s extend our recognition to all those fathers and father figures who continue to shape and mold lives, standing firm in the face of life’s complexities. To those who continue to challenge the status quo, shattering expectations and creating legacies of love, strength, and resilience.
In their honor, and for the sake of our children and the generations to come, let’s commit to being the best fathers we can be. To embodying strength and kindness, courage and wisdom, love and integrity. To raising our children in an atmosphere of understanding, guiding them with wisdom born of experience, and loving them with a love that knows no bounds.
So, here’s to the fathers, the grandfathers, the father figures, and to all men who play a crucial role in a child’s life. This Father’s Day, we honor you, we thank you, and we strive to continue the noble task you’ve undertaken with such dignity. Here’s to being the best fathers we can be. Happy Father’s Day.
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by Danny Eley | Jun 12, 2023 | Front Page, Integrity, Leadership
Abraham Lincoln, the 16th President of the United States, was a man synonymous with integrity. Despite the complex web of political intrigue and societal unrest, Lincoln’s steadfast commitment to honesty earned him the enduring nickname “Honest Abe.” His life, legacy, and leadership serve as a testament to the transformative power of integrity, demonstrating its role as a cornerstone of authentic masculinity.
Living a life of integrity – standing true to one’s word – is a promise to oneself and to the world. It’s the essence of our character, mirrored not just in our declarations but in our deeds. It’s the shield that defends our honor, the compass guiding our decisions, and the spark igniting our courage. Lincoln embodied these principles, illustrating their potency in every action and every word.
- Embrace Honesty: Lincoln’s reputation for honesty wasn’t built in a day. His unwavering commitment to truthfulness was a constant endeavor, a habit nurtured over time. We can follow his example by being transparent in our thoughts, words, and actions. Start by acknowledging your true feelings and thoughts, even if they seem uncomfortable. Embrace who you are, including your strengths and weaknesses. This self-awareness lays the foundation for genuine honesty.
- Honor Your Commitments: Lincoln showed us that a man’s word is his bond. When you promise something, see it through. This commitment goes beyond verbal declarations—it extends to responsibilities, obligations, and duties. Each fulfilled commitment, no matter how small, strengthens the bonds of trust with others and bolsters your own sense of self-respect. Start by making small commitments and ensuring you follow through. As you build this habit, you will find yourself able to tackle larger obligations with the same steadfastness.
- Practice Humility: Lincoln’s life was a journey strewn with failures and obstacles. Yet, he acknowledged his mistakes, learned valuable lessons from them, and used these learnings to forge ahead. Similarly, we must accept our shortcomings and failures as integral to our growth process. It’s essential to approach our errors with a learning mindset, gleaning insights and wisdom from them to avoid similar pitfalls in the future. Remember, it’s not about never falling; it’s about always getting up.
- Nurture Empathy: A hallmark of Lincoln’s leadership was his empathetic understanding of diverse perspectives. He realized that to make fair decisions and unite people, he needed to appreciate the experiences and feelings of others. Cultivate empathy by listening more and judging less. Seek to understand before seeking to be understood. This practice fosters mutual respect and paves the way for informed decision-making.
- Celebrate Authenticity: Lincoln remained true to his core values despite the immense external pressures he faced. He understood that integrity was intertwined with authenticity. We must also honor our unique selves and resist the temptation to conform to societal expectations. Stay true to your beliefs and values, even if they go against the grain. It is in this courage to remain genuine that we embody true integrity.
Lincoln’s life underscores that the path to integrity requires commitment and vigilance. I challenge you: commit to upholding one act of integrity each day for the coming month, just as Lincoln might have. These could be as simple as keeping a small promise, admitting an error, or standing up for what’s right. These actions, though they may seem small, can lead to significant changes in your character and your interactions with others.
Integrity is about living your truth every day, about allowing your actions to speak louder than words. Just as Abraham Lincoln did, let’s aspire to be men of unwavering strength, unyielding courage, and unassailable honor.
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