Inspired by “How to be a Man” by Dax feat. Darius Rucker

I find myself living in a world that’s teetering on the edge. There’s chaos in every headline—economic downturns, global unrest, and wars brewing on the horizon. But that external noise often drowns out the personal chaos many of us are wrestling with inside our own four walls. I feel this deeply. My role as the sole provider has never been more daunting, particularly as my wife has taken on the full-time job of raising our children. It’s a role I’m grateful she can fill, but it does add to the weight I’m carrying. And like many of you know, my mom’s been fighting cancer. I wouldn’t be anywhere else but here to support her, but the emotional and spiritual toll is real.

You know that feeling when you’re screaming inside but can’t let it out? Like you’re afraid to add your troubles to someone else’s plate? So you internalize it. That weight becomes a silent scream, heavy enough to crush your spirit but silent enough to go unnoticed.

This is when I lean on God. For me, God isn’t a far-off concept; He’s a real, tangible source of strength. When I’m grappling with the fear and uncertainty that life throws my way, my faith provides solace. It’s not just about knowing God is there; it’s about feeling His presence, especially in those moments when everything else feels unstable.

But let’s make something clear: faith isn’t a solitary journey. I believe in the power of community, of brotherhood. While it’s true we men often feel we have to go it alone, the truth is, we’re stronger together. We have to share our struggles, lend a shoulder, and sometimes even be the shoulder to lean on. It’s not just for our benefit, but for our children, too. I want my sons to grow up understanding that their dad could weather the storm because he wasn’t too proud to seek help, both divine and earthly.

I want them to see that their dad relied on a strong community and an even stronger God to get through the trials life invariably throws our way. The road might be rocky, but if we keep our feet steady and our hearts open, we can navigate through anything. We don’t have to be islands, silently suffering while life’s storms rage around us. We can be anchors for each other, rooted in faith and fortified by brotherhood.

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